I’m a big tease at school. I can make the little kids giggle, just by looking at them a certain way. The people I work with say it’s because I have a very expressive face. They also say that I always look like I’m up to something. hmmph! When we’re singing, the kids faces are always stuck on me, watching me move and do the actions. They’re usually smiling as they sing and try to mimic my movements. Nothing makes you feel happier and more fulfilled than being able to bring a smile to the face of a child.
Our little recovering cancer patient was so severely traumatized by her ordeal that she forgot how to walk, talk, eat, and also lost a great deal of her hearing. She is in remission though, so that is the main thing. I started building a relationship with her last year, once she got out of hospital, because I worked with her little autistic brother, and she would come along to pick him up. I started just by saying hello, and smiling at her. Then I started kind of teasing her, and acting like I was going to “get her”. Finally I got a little smile! By early June, she had started slowly walking again, and I would fuss over her, and she would smile. Near the end of June, she attended a few days of classes in preparation for this year. She stuck to me like glue, but didn’t fuss when her Mom left, which was major! We went out to the playground and I put her on the slide, and she would giggle and giggle. She had so much fun! Now 6 months later, I have finally got her to run, to hop, to walk sideways, and to do a jump shot when we play basketball. She’s learning to talk, she’s got hearing aids now, she’s making friends with the other kids finally, and rather than just talking out loud to me, she will answer the other adults now too. Now the minute she sees me, her face breaks out in a great big grin, and I’ll say hi, in my goofy voice I reserve just for her and she just squeals and giggles. It’s been so wonderful to be a small part in her recovery!
I may not make much of an income, but the rewards are known only to someone who’s worked with these kids.