Well if the telephone conversation I had with my son today is any indication, tonight 2 hearts may be broken. I feel so bad for Ben, but there’s not a thing I can do to help him, other than to be there for him. He knows she’s just dragging him down. He said at one point, “I lover her though… otherwise our relationship is great… shouldn’t I be standing beside her?” I told him, “Sometimes love isn’t enough. Sometimes a problem just is too much to take on, whether it be drugs, or addictions, tempers, etc. Sometimes loving someone isn’t enough to “fix” it.

Right now he’s working 2 jobs, plus doing the renos on the rental house they’re in. And she’s sitting on her ASS. I told him, “I don’t know how someone who loves you so much can sit and watch you do all that!”